Finding your love is not easy. Maybe even harder than holding it back later. Not all people are characterized by such emotional sensitivity and such intuition that they immediately point out to them that loved one and the only one, even if he is one of the crowd, one of many. However, there are specific steps you can take to help you find your soul mate.
Instructions
Step 1
Do not push people away from you, guided by some semi-childish judgments about people. Well, he's kind of disgusting. Well, he's kind of unkempt. Well, he's kind of "creepy". Only those ladies who have already developed a personal life and who have somewhere to retire can afford to think so - and even then too hasty conclusions can hinder any person. You are now in an active search, and you need to look very closely and listen to every man from those who revolve around you.
Step 2
Start from a position of friendly affection. Love at first sight, love that originated precisely as love and changed, improved already in the process of life, love that gave rise to friendly sympathy, friendship and common interests, is an extremely, extremely rare phenomenon. Such love itself seeks people, people cannot find it. If this happens to you, be happy and take care of this precious feeling. If not, nurture, nurture love from the seeds of friendship.
Step 3
Look not for those people who are nicer in appearance, that are admired by your friends and girlfriends and are considered "enviable suitors" in society, but those with whom you are more interesting and easier. Of course, you can find your love among the polished beauties, especially if you are a lady yourself anywhere (at least to the court of the Queen of England!), But there you will also need to find a person who is close spiritually. True love is built precisely on spiritual closeness, if there is none, physical closeness will be very difficult to keep.
Step 4
Identifying the person with whom you are close intellectually and spiritually, most likely, is possible with the mind. But after that, give the first violin to the senses. It is the heart that must tell you: this is it! It is it that should make the final verdict. This is usually expressed in a special feeling that you probably know from the time when you were little and your feelings were not yet ruined by life - the feeling of falling in love. It manifests itself in the desire to smile (especially to him), in the desire to be beautiful and cheerful. If you feel this feeling in yourself, do not kill it, but also do not let it grow. It's like a flower: if you water it with fertilizers, it will grow everywhere, if you leave it without care, it will dry up, if you take care of it with attention and care, it will give beautiful buds, and then, perhaps, fruits.
