It is very difficult to find true friendship today. Unfortunately, in our time there is a lot of betrayal. You cannot call everyone you meet a friend, it is not in vain that there is such a statement: "One friend, and the rest are acquaintances!"
For years, many people have been arguing about the existence of heterosexual friendship. And their opinion is divided 50 to 50. Someone is sure that she exists, and is sure that a friend of the opposite sex will not betray, will not take the guy / girl away. And someone proves the opposite, believing that such a friendship cannot exist at all.
There is no unequivocal correct answer to the question of whether there can be friendship between a guy and a girl. After all, everyone approaches this individually and everything depends in each case on a particular person.
Not every person will be able to be friends with a person of the opposite sex without mixing friendship with something big. There are men who are looking for friendship with a girl on the side for affection and comfort. And women, on the contrary, turn to a man for advice, help, support, share their problems and experiences.
The situation becomes clearer when there are family on one side and friends on the other. After all, it is not always possible to tell the family about their problems, since the family will not always understand and support them correctly. For example, a woman will not always be able to confess to her husband about sexual dissatisfaction, talk about problems of this kind. Also, a man will not always be able to tell his wife that he liked a passing girl, or, for example, about his gambling hobbies, and even more so about big losses. In same-sex friendships, it is usually not always possible to share everything. Perhaps it is for this reason that men seek to throw out their innermost thoughts to a female friend, and women reveal to a man their secrets of female nature, which their friends will not understand.
There are many cases when heterosexual friends do not allow intimate relationships, believing that sex is not compatible with friendship, because after sex the relationship is not at all the same. And some men and women quite calmly combine sex and friendship, agreeing with the statement "you can't spoil friendship with sex." But there are times that not every friend is suitable for the candidacy of a lover or mistress.
You can argue and talk about friendship between a guy and a girl endlessly, the main thing in this matter is not to impose your opinion on anyone.
