Someone says that building the right relationship is an art, someone considers it an important necessity, but in any case, every person who wants to have a healthy relationship is obliged to follow certain rules, because any beauty and ease is achieved only through joint work.
Instructions
Step 1
The very first rule is to keep your distance between yourself and your partner. Remember when you met, how you treated each other with reverence, how you treasured the minutes of the meeting, how pleasant it was for you to see and hear a person? Everything he said was important, and you felt that this interest was mutual. Therefore, do not open up to the end, do not seek to spread everything about yourself. Let your relationship be like a game in which nothing is known yet. The only thing you need to be sure of is your mutual honesty and desire to be together.
Step 2
The main mistake of young couples is that they rush towards each other on the waves of initial passion and practically "stick together". And therein lies a great danger. Over time, such things as selfishness, manipulation, resentment, claims to the freedom of another person appear.
All this is justified by the fear of losing each other, and, as a rule, such alliances do not end well. Therefore, keep your distance, respect your partner, do not control his every step, limiting his personal freedom, to which he has an absolute right. Be a separate person, as you were when meeting your loved one, and let him be so, because that is how you liked him.
Step 3
Take care of each other. Stop pressing on sore spots - after all, this is nothing more than a manifestation of aggression. But you are together precisely in order to organize together a comfortable life, full of trust and mutual understanding.
Take care of your partner as much as you do for your car or hair. Not because it is necessary or you expect something in return, you want to please, but because you feel good when your loved one feels good.
Step 4
Talk to each other about your relationship. Do not accumulate resentment, irritation, feelings of infringement in something. Don't expect your eye partner to read your mind. Therefore, say everything that the other person should know, but not in the form of claims or manipulations, but as a request. Or just share your experiences.
When a man and a woman talk to each other, frankly, with a desire to maintain a relationship, they do not need any family psychologist, because they can ask each other questions and answer them themselves.
Step 5
Personal space is very important for every person, and in a couple this need does not disappear anywhere. Everyone should spend at least half of their free time on their own: with their friends, in the circle of their own interests, and loneliness for periods is important and useful for the soul.
Therefore, do not seek to do everything together and live together. Go on a journey alone, divide the space into your personal and general. It's good if everyone has their own separate room or at least a well-defined corner in the room.
Step 6
And most importantly: men, be men, and women, be women! This means that a man should be able to take responsibility at the right time, make specific decisions and in no case seek comfort from his woman.
A woman, on the other hand, must be so wise and strong that she can sometimes step on her own opinion and let her man go to the fore. After all, as folk wisdom says, behind every strong man there is a strong woman.
