Some people have the ability to draw almost anyone with them. They are constantly in the spotlight, while their status is far from being of paramount importance. This is charisma, it is like magnetism and attracts others. It is quite difficult to become a charismatic person, but anyone can do it.
Self-confidence
Self-confidence is an essential attribute of a charismatic man. People around him see that a man does not doubt himself and his actions and is drawn to him. Be positive, start a conversation with those that are interesting to others, interest them with your conversation. It is a big mistake to conduct conversations while reproaching or judging someone. Such conversations initially create a negative atmosphere and alienate the interlocutors.
Do not doubt your words, speak with confidence. Maintain a calm tone and pace of the conversation, and emphasize important words by raising the rhythm or volume of your voice. Speak clearly and clearly. To test your own confidence, record your speech and listen to it.
Language of the body
A person's confidence and comfort are well read by their body language. Wrong movements always betray an insecure, shy and indecisive person. It is important to behave in such a way that others do not have doubts about your confidence in your words and actions. Entering an unfamiliar room or being surrounded by unfamiliar people, walk with a firm gait and keep your posture, this is the first thing that betrays an insecure person. When greeting someone, greet him with a firm handshake, smile and look directly in the eyes. When conducting a conversation, stand or sit face to face with the other person, keep your arms away from your face and do not cross them over your chest.
Practice your body language while standing in front of a mirror. Pretend you're talking to someone and watch your actions.
Raise the self-esteem of the interlocutors
A charismatic man is distinguished by the ability to talk to any person on any topic. He knows how to listen, give confidence to the one with whom he speaks, make him feel like the center of the universe. Do not exalt yourself in front of the interlocutor, do not interrupt him. At the same time, do not let him feel superior to yourself, respect him, but be equal to him.
Be genuinely interested in the life and affairs of the other person, but do not be intrusive. Make him feel that you are interested in the conversation. Always remember the names of your interlocutors. By not forgetting the person's name, you will increase his own importance the next time you meet him.
Haraism does not mean that other people are just pleased to communicate with you. Don't think about what others think of you, be self-sufficient and exude confidence.
Sense of humor
People are always attracted to witty interlocutors who can make good jokes. A charismatic person should be able to create an atmosphere of fun without much effort. First of all, learn to laugh at yourself, but do not laugh at your shortcomings, do not engage in self-deprecation. This skill always commands the respect of others, it is a sign of true charisma. Consider who you are talking to when incorporating your sense of humor. For example, sharp jokes can be used with people who dress loosely and behave in a relaxed manner. Sensitive people who cannot stand criticism are treated differently. Use only harmless and short jokes. Be able to impress others by keeping them interested in the conversation.
