Making responsible decisions is never easy. However, this is the only way to get rid of worries about the possible occurrence of an error. To get rid of fear, you have to go through it, gain strength and self-confidence.
It is easy for someone to make decisions, while someone weighs the pros and cons in order not to make a mistake. Often the process of delay can lead to fatal consequences. In order to get rid of indecision, it will take time and work on yourself.
It should be understood that slow decision making, as well as unnecessary haste, can be very harmful. Usually, the basis of indecision is the fear of error and punishment, it also suggests that the person has not yet psychologically emerged from childhood. Subconscious disbelief in one's own strengths causes a desire to shift the responsibility onto some "adult".
In order to get rid of fear and make decisions easily, you need to learn the following rules:
- everyone makes mistakes, through this a person gains life experience;
- no need to engage in excessive self-criticism, understand that no one is perfect;
- analyze why you are afraid of making decisions, how your independence was treated in the family;
- when making a decision, do not think a lot about the consequences of different options, it is simply impossible to calculate everything;
- do not try to control life, it is complex and diverse.
Fear is a natural reaction of our body to danger, it mobilizes all forces and helps to cope with it. But don't let fear rule you and your decisions.
