Loneliness scares not only old people, but also young people. It's scary to never find a suitable partner, to be misunderstood in society, not to have friends. It seems that without a decent environment, nothing will work out, that by yourself you are weak and helpless.
Instructions
Step 1
Why are some constantly surrounded by friends, while others are lonely all their lives? According to psychologists, this is everyone's choice. At first he is unconscious. A person prone to solitude wants to communicate with others, but hesitates to start a conversation, the presence of an outsider nearby scares and annoys him. He begins to delve into himself, look for flaws, complexes. And only after a sufficient number of past years he realizes that in fact his natural state is loneliness. He no longer tries to overcome himself by communicating with uninteresting people. And directs all forces to physical development and spiritual improvement.
Step 2
If this is not your case, you feel the need for communication, but you cannot find friends yet - do not be discouraged. Start in the virtual space. By texting with an invisible partner, you will not be shy, you will be able to express any thought. The interlocutors will understand what an interesting and developed person you are, without even seeing you. And in a real meeting, you will feel more relaxed, since you will have to talk with long-familiar people. And among them there will definitely be two or three who will become your true friends.
Step 3
If you do not complain about the lack of friends, but there are big problems with your personal life - you have not had a partner for a long time, as well as applicants for a vacant position, perhaps you do not have enough self-confidence. Show more initiative when interacting with people of the opposite sex. Show attention, make it clear that you are free and would not mind having a romance. It is not necessary that the first person you like will reciprocate. Do not give up and keep looking for your soul mate.
Step 4
To avoid loneliness, become more open, friendly, talkative. Say yes more often. Few people realize how much they miss, refusing the offers of others - to go on a hike, jump with a parachute, or just sit with friends on a bench in the yard. Any simple action creates a continuation, and by agreeing to something, you give fate a chance to surround you with reliable companions and loved ones.
