Not everyone can be friends, because for this you need to be able to rejoice in other people's successes, help in difficult situations, and someday be a “vest”. But quantity does not mean quality. And it is the turning points in life that show who a real friend is.
Instructions
Step 1
If you are thinking about strengthening your friendship, then this person is worth being called a true friend. But if your relationship is constantly overshadowed by misunderstandings and quarrels, begin to understand their causes. Each person on a subconscious level always feels how they are treated. Even if the friend is just trying to be good, sooner or later the truth will come out.
Step 2
Always remember that in true friendship you should not count how much you have given and received. This is, of course, not about money. Trust is at the core of any friendship. Those. if a friend has entrusted you with his innermost secrets, especially of a personal nature, under no circumstances should you share this information with other people. This is taboo. Do not betray a person, and even more so do not laugh at him, after he simply will never trust you with anything. And, perhaps, he will end all relations with you altogether. Therefore, think a hundred times before discussing his secrets with someone.
Step 3
Look after your friendships, find common interests, and have fun together. Nothing strengthens a friendship better than like-mindedness or shared hatred, for example. As you know, a common goal unites people. Get to know a friend's hobbies better, most likely you will find something interesting for yourself without any problems and will also get carried away.
Step 4
A friend is known not only in trouble, but also in joy. Rejoice sincerely in the successes and achievements of your friends, eliminate envy. An envious person can never become a real companion, it simply contradicts the concept of friendship. Agree that it is very nice to see and feel the friend's sincere joy for you.
Step 5
Nobody is perfect, so knowing the bad traits of your friend, leave it to yourself, do not discuss, especially do not try to re-educate him. Do not give up in trouble, even if you do not agree with his position. All this is relevant only in the case of a truly dignified and friendly attitude towards you.
