In each era, society formed a certain standard of femininity, which corresponded to certain norms of behavior and external conformity. And, of course, girls and women in pursuit of modern trends do not strive to be themselves, but to correspond to the fashionable standard accepted in society. Of course, the choice always remains with the woman, to accept herself or to play a certain role. But in order to weigh the pros and cons, let's see what standard modern society offers us, and the media actively impose on the female audience.
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Step 1
First of all, it must be said that both society and men make very contradictory requirements for a modern woman, and sometimes even mutually exclusive ones. This is expressed both in appearance and in behavior. Men want to see a strong, stylish, fashionable and confident girl, and at the same time, they want to see her vulnerable, fragile and feminine. Not every woman will be able to meet this standard.
Step 2
Women are offered men's haircuts and trousers, and immediately asked to wear a light, delicate dress. At the same time, a woman in a dress is often considered more vulnerable, and a woman wearing trousers and suits is more strict and stern. Finding a balance is very difficult. What exactly does the modern world want to see in a woman's appearance? Almost the same as always - dignity. Be attentive to yourself, find your image and choose the fashion trends that suit you. Do not break your appearance for every new trend, create your own unique style.
Step 3
After appearances pay attention to our behavior. And here, too, contradictions await us. They want to see women weak and waiting for help from men and at the same time strong and able to stand up for themselves. You should not follow the lead of someone, especially fashion. It all depends on the situation. If you are walking with your man, let him be responsible for you, protect and protect, take care of you. But if you are alone in an unpleasant situation, do not panic, defend your rights and be strong. As elsewhere, you will have to look for the very balance that will allow you to be fragile and tender in the eyes of your beloved man and strong and strong-willed in the eyes of others.
Step 4
So what should be the image of a modern woman? Every woman can find the answer to this question for herself. The modern world allows us to be different, and this is a huge plus. Open yourself up and show your best side. If you are feminine and fragile by nature, then it is worth emphasizing this, and looking for a reliable and strong man as a companion. If you are strong and strong-willed, do not break yourself, succeed at work, emphasize your merits, and look for a man of equal spirit as a partner.
