Being in a relationship, a girl may one day realize that the feelings are gone. What to do in this situation? Of course, you need to try to get out of the situation with minimal losses. It is unlikely that emotional experiences can be avoided, but it is quite possible to take into account the factors that complicate the separation. Let's figure out how to get rid of the ex.
Assess the environment
Understand yourself. Are your senses completely lost? Is there a chance to keep this relationship? You can part with a clear conscience if you have done everything possible to maintain this relationship. This approach will allow you not to worry in the future about a possibly perfect mistake.
If the decision is made, talk seriously about ending the relationship, about the fact that they have no future. Although it is difficult, it is better than ignoring visits, calls and expectations that he will figure everything out on his own. Better to do it honestly by talking frankly.
Be careful when ending a relationship
If the reason for the breakup can somehow humiliate the person, you should not report it. After all, if you change your mind, it will be difficult to renew such a relationship. He can also promise to improve, and this will automatically create a more difficult situation. Just say that the feelings have faded away.
“The tomatoes have wilted,” you shouldn't be busy listing the cons: chomping at the table, a tube of toothpaste not closed on time, scattered dirty things, a mess in the apartment, laziness, and so on. You should not say nasty things when parting, just recently this person was close to you. Remember, humiliating a person at parting, thereby you humiliate yourself.
After a breakup, you should ignore phone calls and messages on social networks. No need to enter into correspondence, it is better to change mail and other accounts. Or add this person everywhere to blacklists so that messages will be sent to them completely in vain and will not reach you.
Be sincere
It's hard to break up with someone who truly loves you. But deceiving his feelings and staying together further is not an option either. He will feel cold and one day he will guess everything himself. Prepare for the person who loves you to try to get the relationship back. If the decision was weighed, there is no need to react to it. Over time, passions will subside, and if you decide to continue communication, then the relationship can be kind, human.
If the case is very difficult
If your ex started to threaten, turned into a complete maniac - try to collect as much evidence as possible. The police will not take any action without them. If insults and threats are heard over the phone, record them on a dictaphone. Save letters and sms, enlist the support of witnesses. You can threaten him that you will contact the police, if this does not help, write a statement. His ardor may cool off after visits to the police.
If your ex is guarding you at the entrance or work, trying to sort things out for the millionth time, proceed with caution. Such a person may be completely unwell mentally, in psychology there is even such a concept - stalking. Do not be rude to him, most likely, he enjoys his own pain, and does not love you at all. Most of these people are cowards, so a strong conversation with threats can put him in his place. It is better not to use physical force here. Try to avoid such a person as much as possible.
