Only a strong personality can take full responsibility for one's own life. If you want to become the master of your destiny, you need to reconsider your internal attitudes.
Instructions
Step 1
Don't feel sorry for yourself. Some people complain about the circumstances and thus admit that they have no control over their own destiny. Other personalities do not pay much attention to complexity. They try to see opportunities in problems, they do not sit idly by, but act. While a weak person criticizes everything around him and is indignant at how unjust the world is, the master of his fate is looking for ways to resolve the issue. If you stop in front of obstacles and consider yourself a victim of external circumstances, the idea creeps into your subconscious mind that you cannot influence the way your life develops. You don't need to be passive.
Step 2
Learn to master yourself. Don't ignore your own emotions. You will not achieve anything by this. The negativity that you constantly suppress can build up and result in a lot of stress. Observe your feelings, acknowledge them, but do not let them dominate your consciousness. This is exactly what really strong personalities do, who want to control themselves and the situation. Learn how to properly get rid of negative emotions. This can be done with the help of various visualizations, physical activity, communication with nature, sports. If you cannot cope with yourself and succumb to feelings to the detriment of your own interests, you will not be able to control your destiny.
Step 3
Don't be afraid of the new. People who avoid change don't move forward. If you want to be the master of your destiny, step out of your comfort zone. Learn to see the positive aspects of external change. Even in times of crisis, strong personalities find opportunities to improve their living conditions. During a period of stagnation, your development stops. Without personal growth, it will be difficult for you to build a successful career or achieve harmony in your personal life. Avoid life without change. Sooner or later you will feel that you are missing something, feel melancholy and dissatisfaction. The pursuit of progress is part of human nature.
Step 4
Take a simpler approach to those circumstances that you cannot influence. Any annoying little things can make a weak person mad. A strong personality will not waste his own energy and nerves on those problems that he cannot control. Conserve your internal resources. You will need them to build your own happy life. If you cannot influence the situation and change some external circumstances, change your attitude towards them. This is a wise decision of a person who wants to be the master of his own destiny.
