For some people, the main difficulty is not achieving a set goal, but determining their true desires. If you consider yourself to be in this category, do some work on yourself.
False values
Sometimes, before deciding what you want, it’s worth identifying what you don’t want. Perhaps some of your current values are false, imposed by society. Indeed, sometimes a person sets himself tasks under the pressure of friends, acquaintances, screen stars, advertisements, the experience of other people, books, films and much, what else. It's good that you are such a receptive person and so sensitive to others. But, if you want to be happy, you should drop all these imposed values and get to know yourself.
Having achieved your next goal, listen to your own feelings: are you satisfied, do you feel satisfaction, joy, happiness. If there are no positive emotions, and you are overcome only by fatigue after a long journey, then you were working not for yourself, but for false values. If, having reached one level in something, you immediately make yourself a mindset to conquer the next, this can also be a signal that the completion of this task does not correspond to your true needs and desires.
It is necessary to get rid of fake desires. But first, get at least some benefit from them. Your true needs can only be found on a deeper level in those values that you mistake for your own. Analyze why certain points interested you.
Own desires
An easy way to define your desires is to imagine your life ideally in a few years. Think in detail, in small things, what kind of person you have become, what you do, where you live, who is around you. In the future, you set yourself plans for what personal qualities you need to develop, in what area to work and how to build your personal life.
Think about activities that make you happy. So you can decide on the ideal profession for you, if you add information about your capabilities and abilities to your favorite pastime. Believe me, the result can be obtained, if only it is good to delve into yourself and think. Try to understand yourself better. Observe how good luck and bad luck affect you in a particular area of life. The area that finds the most lively response in your soul is the main one for you. Think about how you would like to change it.
If you were jealous in the present or in the past, analyze what exactly could be the reason for this feeling: success in a particular area or personality trait, wealth or a strong family. Try on the information received for yourself: do you still want it. There are different ways to understand what you want. It is only important to listen to yourself and watch your reaction to certain events.
