Many people suffer from being overly humble, uncomfortable, or insecure. Humility manifests itself in different ways in every person. Someone loses self-control, someone's pulse quickens, and someone is speechless.
Instructions
Step 1
Make an effort on yourself and do not worry about what other people actually think of you. People do not judge by any external manifestations, but by what a person really is.
Step 2
You don't need to demand perfection from yourself, you need to be yourself. Look at your merits and demerits as objectively as possible.
Step 3
Evaluate other people honestly, do not ascribe to them unfairly bad intentions towards you. Rest assured that people treat you on an equal footing.
Step 4
Try to be sociable, smile often and greet other people. Learn to strike up a conversation yourself.
Step 5
Treat yourself with a sense of humor if you suddenly say something wrong. No need to dwell on this, keep the conversation going.
Step 6
Set yourself only realistic goals, learn to strike up a conversation with others, communicate with strangers in a relaxed and easy way.
Step 7
If you need to perform in front of a large audience, prepare in advance for this event. Dress tastefully so you don't feel uncomfortable about it. People will also be very pleased to look at you. Communicate with the audience visually, convince them that what you are communicating is very important to them.
Step 8
Learn to develop a conversation with your interlocutor, ask his opinion, compliment him.
Step 9
Look in the mirror at yourself and mentally describe yourself from the best side. Look: maybe you need to change something in yourself, for example, your hairstyle. Ask for advice about this with someone close to you, whom you trust. The main task is to find good qualities and traits in yourself.
Step 10
Modesty is to some extent present in every person, but you don't need to give it power over yourself. Rather than locking yourself up alone, let go of shyness and enjoy being with other people.
