Unfortunately, in life you sometimes have to suffer from undeserved grievances and attacks from a rude person. It is unpleasant to be the target of such attacks. If you suffer from them, it means that you were not able to stop these attacks in time, and the presumptuous boor decided that you are defenseless in front of him, continuing to assert yourself at your expense. How to put a person in his place?
Instructions
Step 1
If you understand that your good manners and delicacy are perceived as weakness, then it's time to stop getting upset because of this, worrying about someone else's rudeness. Do not get lost and do not fall into a stupor. As a rule, only your inner strength and resistance can discourage such a person from continuing to attack.
Step 2
Never respond rudely to rudeness - it always turns into an ordinary market squabble, because here the boor acts on his own territory and you have no chance of winning. Your sense of humor and observation should come to your aid. Notorious people are rude to others, who thus mask their inferiority. Find this flaw of him and put it in place with a witty phrase, make it clear that he does not hide his complex with his behavior, but pushes it out.
Step 3
Sometimes even physical flaws in the appearance of your offender help: it is quite simple, not paying attention to his attacks, to start looking with interest at the defects on his face. We think that not every boor will be able to continue a conversation in this spirit.
Step 4
Attacks can be expressed not only in aggressive words, but also in a constant ironic tone, offensive jokes and comments about you. Don't pretend not to notice them or suppress your feelings. Ask this person, in front of everyone, what is the reason for this attitude towards you, make your assumptions that are no less offensive to him and voice them. Let him know that you have guessed his maneuvers and that you are not going to put up with them.
Step 5
Be self-confident and proud, under no pretext do not show that hurtful words have hurt you, such people who do not pay attention to them and are indifferent to them, boors bypass the third road.
