Intuition helps to feel what a person really is, despite how he tries to present himself to others. It is difficult for people who do not have discernment to adequately identify a person by their appearance, whether they are a familiar person or a beginner. They assess the interlocutor superficially, in appearance, in demeanor and behavior. Connoisseurs of "clothes" do not know whether a person is sincere in communication. If you wish, you can learn to understand what is hidden behind the external appearance of a person, how he is tuned and what he is thinking about at the moment.
Instructions
Step 1
Carefully observe the movements, facial expressions, gestures of your opponent. Congenital, genetic or acquired, they tell about the inner world of the owner, because they are done instinctively. Non-verbal behavior of people conveys their emotions and feelings. And no matter how hard a person tries, no matter what artist he is, the habit will unconsciously jump out.
Step 2
Immediately upon meeting or meeting, pay attention to the person's gestures. Be sure that the person constantly touching the watch, purse, jacket, etc. with one hand. or having shaken the fingertips of the hand while greeting, feels insecure and unprotected. The palm is the most powerful non-verbal signal. During the greeting, outstretched arms and open palms show that their owner is a "guy-shirt", ready to communicate sincerely and honestly. A person hiding their palms under their armpits or in their pockets is clearly trying to hide something. If, when shaking hands, your hand is turned palm down, then they want to express superiority and dominant position. Think of the vertical position of the palms when shaking hands for trust and respect. Aggression and cruelty is manifested in a handshake with a "crunch". The damp and cold palm of the welcoming person will betray the weak character of the person, even if he entered with a brisk, confident step.
Step 3
Take a closer look during a conversation with the interlocutor. A person's facial expressions and gestures during a conversation will tell you at what point a person is telling a lie, intrigued by the conversation, whether he agrees with you. As Dr. Desmond Morris noted, American scientists, studying the behavior of nurses, came to the conclusion that nurses who lied to a patient about his condition brought their hands to their faces, those who spoke the truth almost never did this. Hands raised to the face is the main gesture of deception. The narrator covers his mouth with his palm, touches the tip of the nose, rubs his eyelids, takes his eyes to the side - be on the lookout, most likely in front of you is a liar or a lover of exaggeration.
Step 4
Support and reassure the person who put a finger in their mouths of good intentions. Understand that he is looking for support and approval from you, even if calmly, without anguish, narrates about something. Interlocking fingers speak about a person's self-confidence. However, whitened toes from strong grip warn of hostility or depression.
Step 5
Look closely into the eyes of the interlocutor. The eyes tell a lot about a person and become signals in the process of communication. Pupils dilate with excitement and constrict with irritability. Consider a reliable and responsible person, whose gaze is kept at the level of your eyes and in the zone of the "third" eye. A lowered gaze, just below your eyes, indicates a friendly mood. A sidelong look combined with raised eyebrows and a smile is a signal of interest. Frowning and pinched eyebrows on the bridge of the nose, drooping corners of the mouth, a sidelong glance express suspicion, criticism or hostility.
Step 6
Rest assured that you are bored with your story or speaking if the listener is resting his head on his hand. But the tapping of your fingers on the table or your feet on the floor is understood as impatience of a person. People rubbing the back of their heads and neck are most often critical and negative. Chin stroking - mainly gestures of assessment, decision making. Follow the gaze of the person participating in the conversation. If he decides to end the discussion, he involuntarily turns his whole body or directs his legs towards the nearest exit.
Step 7
In order to feel comfortable with a person, and not to get into an awkward position, take a closer look at several gestures, habits, postures, because sometimes closed eyes speak of fatigue, and not of a person's arrogance. It is impossible to learn and correctly assess all the signs that speak of a person's appearance. You should take into account many different factors, the discrepancy between body movements and facial expressions, and only then make conclusions regarding the definition of a person by appearance.
