Every day is filled with a lot of everyday little things. More often than not, they are annoying, and sometimes even unsettling you. It is important to learn to think and live in a positive way and not pay attention to the annoying little things in life.
Instructions
Step 1
Unpleasant moments can distract from the main things. Set a goal for yourself, not necessarily for a lifetime, it can be a plan for the day or for the current week. Follow the plan, do not give up what you started because of the small obstacles that arise, just make small adjustments to your schedule and move on to the goal.
Step 2
Try to see the positive in everyday little things. For example, if you missed your bus, do not get angry and do not stand at the bus stop waiting for the next one, walk a little. A walk in the fresh air will improve your mood. Don't pay too much attention to annoying little things, learn to make use of them. Are you out of your favorite cakes in the cafe? This is an opportunity to try something new and expand your gastronomic passion. An important meeting failed? Spend the evening with friends or have an unusual family dinner. Spontaneous events are usually the most successful.
Step 3
Most often, people are unbalanced by unpleasant household trifles and habits of loved ones. Does your spouse have a minor flaw that annoys you? It is unlikely that you will be able to ignore him all your life. Use a trade-off trick. Does your beloved person scatter his things all over the apartment? Forgive him this little thing in exchange for completing your unloved household chores. For example, let's say you fold clothes while your spouse washes the dishes. In addition, everyday little things in life are more than offset by the merits of loved ones.
