Everyone, at least once in their life, is faced with deception. Therefore, the pain striking at this moment is known to everyone. And it doesn't matter whether a friend, a loved one, a loved one, or all at once deceived you - the pain always burns the soul in the same way. How to survive a deception when you no longer want anything but to forget everyone and yourself?
Instructions
Step 1
Don't expect the abuser to apologize. Anyone who has allowed himself to deceive a loved one is unlikely to take care of his feelings after. So it’s silly to think that now the doorbell will ring, he will come, and you will start a conversation about what happened. This waiting will only knock you down even more. Of course, repentance can come and a conversation can take place, but let it be a pleasant surprise.
Step 2
Forgive the person who deceived you, regardless of whether they apologized to you or not. Perhaps forgiveness is so simple - this is the most difficult, but at the same time, the most important thing. You can distract yourself as much as you like, surround yourself with other people, even start taking revenge, but until the insult is given a way out, you will continue to suffer from what happened.
Step 3
Under no circumstances should you try to inconvenience the cheater as much. Simply put, don't start revenge. Think for yourself how you now hate and despise a liar for his base deed, for betrayal. But would you be better off doing the same to him in return? In the future, the fact that you have done nasty things will start eating you no less than the resentment generated by deception.
Step 4
Try to forget about everything. Of course, it is very difficult to get rid of the once close person from the head, and with him his betrayal, but it's worth trying. This will only work if you forgive him, as already mentioned. Don't try to analyze what happened, think that you missed something, that you could have prevented it and everything like that. Just forget, there is still a lot to think about.
Step 5
Start a new page in your life. Once the lived records of your chronicle have been soiled by someone's dishonorable act, turn the page and start a new chapter, even if leaving the last one unfinished. Think, after all, leaving your life of a person who turned out to be capable of deception and betrayal frees up a lot of time and space in your soul and head. Therefore, stop cherishing the emptiness created by the impact. Go for new impressions and acquaintances, and you yourself will not notice how the wound will heal.
