If all people are lying, how do you know when you are being deceived? There are signs, focusing on which it is possible to calculate a liar with a very high probability. Experienced liars show almost no signs of lying, but if a person deceives you without preparing a "script", then you can notice that he has a lot of characteristic features of behavior.
Instructions
Step 1
The person is slower than usual to react to everything you say. The reason is that the liar ponders the reaction for fear of giving himself away. As a rule, if he decided to show emotions, then he does it somewhat pretentiously, trying too hard. Desynchronization of the signs of emotion is also common. For example, they first tell you something that should make you happy, and then they start smiling. As if the person suddenly remembers that he is missing something (in this case, a smile), and immediately decides to fix it.
Step 2
A person's words say one thing, but facial expressions, posture and body behavior speak of the opposite. People who are not used to deceiving at every step experience natural, almost physiological, difficulties when trying to lie. For example, when they meet you they tell you how glad they are to see you, but the expression on your face suggests otherwise.
Step 3
When people lie, they seem to seek to hide or protect themselves from their own behavior. They cover their mouth or nose with their hand, cross their arms over their chest or press them to themselves, try to move away from you. A clear sign - a person avoids your gaze, does not dare to look directly into your eyes, maybe even turns away while talking.
Step 4
The person tries to convince you that he talks about completely ordinary things in great detail, adding details that are not necessary. He gets confused in words, stumbles. Intonations are often violated, a person speaks too excitedly or mumbles on purpose in a monotonous voice.
Step 5
If the interlocutor is trying not to lie directly, but to give you incorrect or incomplete information, then a direct question designed to clarify the situation will cause an evasive answer on his part, which can be interpreted in any way. Sometimes a direct question is downright confusing.
