Lying in one form or another can destroy even the most tender and pure love. The emotional wound becomes sometimes unbearable for the deceived, and the further development of relations seems impossible. If you do not intend to leave because of a partner's mistake, reconsider your attitude to the event.
Instructions
Step 1
Philosophical attitude. In fact, none of people is worthy of either love, much less forgiveness for some mistakes. Both are given to us as a gift and speak of the generosity and spiritual strength of the donor. Show strength and generosity. Do not remind your partner of his or her wrongdoing and do not remember yourself. There will be a day when you will need his forgiveness and understanding. Trust me: your connection and relationship is much more important than the mistake of one of the partners.
Step 2
An ironic attitude. Life is always very serious, full of difficult moments and tortured decisions. If we always perceived it in this vein, we would go crazy. Therefore, nature has endowed us with a sense of humor that protects us from the absurdity, illogicality and excessive severity of life. Although it is very difficult to joke at such a moment, smile at your partner and joke, but only sincerely, for example: "Well, now you will have to be executed …".
Step 3
An illogical attitude. Of course, you need to talk about what happened in order to dot the i's. But by no means start a scandal. In a calm voice, describe the feelings you are experiencing. Don't start a scandal, don't expect an apology. Just say you know. After an hour, after a day, continue acting as if nothing happened. With all your might, convince yourself that nothing serious really happened. Continue to enjoy your life together.
Step 4
Don't punish your partner, especially with your forgiveness. Do not show your self-sacrifice and dedication. He himself is already experiencing remorse, knowing that he has hurt you, and twice more: first by an act, and then by an attempt to hide the act. Seeing your theatrical suffering, he will not stand it and, perhaps, will offer to break off the relationship so as not to torment himself or each other.
