Self-doubt is the cause of most of the problems and troubles in a person's life. This can apply to both personal life and professional sphere … And all because a person considers himself unworthy of all this.
Instructions
Step 1
Don't compare yourself to others.
Although most often insecure people do just that. Each person has their own goals and benefits that are necessary to achieve it. The only one with whom you need to compare yourself and compete in order to be better is yourself.
Step 2
Don't make excuses.
All your excuses and excuses will only degrade you in the eyes of others. If something went wrong, just calmly explain why you did it that way. Try to say everything as if this is not a mistake at all, but your vision of this situation or problem.
Step 3
Forgive yourself for your failures.
After all, we are not all perfect. Everyone makes mistakes, but do not torture yourself with this for the rest of your life? Take this in a positive way: every mistake you make will help you avoid similar mistakes in the future.
Step 4
Don't feel sorry for yourself.
This will not make anyone better: neither you nor the people around you. Constant complaints, on the contrary, will irritate others, and they will see you as a person unable to cope with difficulties and problems.
Step 5
Smile!
As simple as it sounds, it really works. Do not miss an opportunity walking by the mirror - smile to yourself. Smile at others. Smile at life!
