Obsession is a very valuable property except for the sales manager. And in relationships with loved ones or the other half, you need to be able to maintain a distance if the person is not in the mood for communication at the moment.
Instructions
Step 1
If you notice that others are avoiding communication with you, then something does not suit them. Think: Are you too annoying? Are you distracting a person with empty conversations from important matters? After all, sociability and obsession are different things. And your friendship doesn't mean you can poke your nose everywhere. For many people, short-term communication is enough, or they are simply busy and, due to elementary politeness, cannot ask you not to pester with questions. Therefore, they avoid meeting with you, or even simply stop communicating.
Step 2
If you ask a question and the person answers evasively, do not insist on an answer. Perhaps he is simply not ready to voice it now. Or does not want to tell you about something. And this is his right. In order not to be intrusive, step aside and wait for a friend to offer himself to continue the conversation on a topic of interest to you.
Step 3
Especially don't be annoying when dealing with young people. Men are hunters at heart. It is more interesting for them to seek a woman, and not to hide from her persecution. Try to disappear from the circle of sight of the object of adoration. If he gets worried, starts calling and is interested in your fate, then everything is in order, the partner is passionate about you, and you absolutely do not need to impose yourself on him. And if after the termination of communication there were no calls, it is definitely not worth continuing to insist on meetings. Most likely, the guy sighed calmly and was only glad that he got rid of such an annoying girl. And, of course, a relationship with him will not work, this is not your option.
Step 4
Even the closest people - parents, sisters, brothers - are closed for communication. Do not insist on a conversation if the person is not ready for it. If you see that his soul is hard, ask if you can help with something. If the answer is no, don't push yourself. Sometimes it's better to get through problems alone. But, at the same time, do not be offended. If a loved one still asks for assistance, be sure to respond.
