A call from a husband's mistress can take you by surprise. How to behave during a conversation? Should I even talk to such a woman? There are some tips that will help put the lovemaker in her place on a verbal level.
Nothing foreshadows trouble, but suddenly the phone rings, and there is the husband's mistress? How to be in such a delicate situation? Each woman reacts differently to such a call. Further actions depend on who exactly this call was addressed to.
Husband's phone
Your spouse's phone rang, but he wasn't there? 85% of women will answer the challenge themselves. The mistress calls. How to be? You can just hang up. After all, she's not calling you. Let her husband talk to her. Be sure to clarify to him your position about what you generally think about his infidelities and women. With your mistress, keep the dialogue to a minimum. In the end, if this is just an episodic woman in the life of a spouse, then there is nothing to talk about with her. If the husband is going to leave you, then there is no point in dialogue with his mistress either. What can she tell you new? Take care of your nerves, just ignore.
your phone number
If your husband's mistress is calling you, then there is some point in talking to her. For example, find out what her plans are for the future. Speak in a calm and even tone. You don't have to make excuses or feel guilty, you are not sleeping with someone else's man. Don't be nervous, don't shout. Have an emphatically polite and cold conversation. The interlocutor should not understand how you are feeling at the moment. If emotions are overwhelming, then just curtail the dialogue under the pretext of being very busy. And when you think about what and how to say, you can call back.
Dialogue rules
Never stoop to insults. Even if your husband's mistress forces you to do it. Remember that a self-respecting woman does not allow herself to be uncivilized. Crush the interlocutor with intellect and cold. Emphasized politeness is a guarantee that the caller will lose her temper faster than you.
Do not prove your right to a husband. In the end, if he has not left you yet and does not even talk about it, then you are already a winner. So this woman is not so dear to him. Why prove the obvious? Just listen carefully to your husband's mistress, and then wish her success in life. Dating a married man is still a pleasure. She was not very lucky in life, since she took such a desperate step.
Don't threaten. Firstly, by threats, you will only spur your husband's mistress to some unknown actions to you. It is possible that they will only make you worse. Secondly, threats will negatively affect your nerves. Why do you need this? Let the one who is to blame be nervous.
