Charm is a human quality that defies simple and obvious explanation. It's a strange thing, some person may look completely ordinary, not be distinguished by outstanding achievements, but for some reason everyone around him simply adores. Sometimes, charm is also called charisma.
And what is so special about this person?
Despite the fact that others often consider a charming person to be beautiful, if you look closely, you will notice that this is not always the case. But it is absolutely certain that charming people always have a special smile that attracts and makes them incredibly cute. And when charm and beauty are combined together, an explosive mixture is obtained, which creates an almost physically perceptible aura of attractiveness around a person.
As for the exclusively female charm, this is a special quality, thanks to which some of the fair sex are considered unforgettable, then, according to psychologists, it is associated with sensitivity and emotionality. The girl who subtly feels the world around her and is able to empathize is always especially sympathetic to those around her, especially men. She may have an ordinary appearance, but she will never be bored without fans.
In the everyday sense, charm is something that a person is endowed with by nature. Either there is charm or it is not, such is the public opinion. But image-makers take a different view on this issue. They break down the charm and explain what the opinion of others about you depends on.
Directional charm
According to the assurances of psychologists, each person has a hidden potential for charm. This quality awakens in people when they meet those with whom they feel good and comfortable. For example, when a person falls in love, he seems to be glowing with happiness from the inside, and at this time he is usually very charming.
How to be charming
There are some behavioral tools that help a person to behave more freely and relaxed, which ultimately leads to an increase in the level of charm. According to research, people perceive and form an opinion about others on the basis of non-verbal cues, which account for about 80-90% of attention. These are facial expressions, gestures, gait, intonation. People react to this automatically, this is an algorithm built into us by nature.
Very often people, especially in Russia, frown, squint their eyes a little or fold their lips into a kind of "anti-smile". To see if this is true for you, go to the mirror and try to deliver a speech as if you were in front of an audience. If your facial expressions are hostile, then you should not be surprised that people do not welcome you with open arms.
Gestures are a special topic of conversation. For many, defensive or closing gestures are characteristic, when a person crosses his arms or legs, half-turns away from the interlocutor, as if trying to fence himself off from him. Signs of boredom or irritation and boredom are just as bad when you cough, rub the tip of your nose, or fiddle with a small object.
To become more charming, practice open gestures. Turn your whole body to the interlocutor, smile during a conversation, listen carefully to him. Even these simple gestures won't be slow to create amazing effects!
