For a girl who has a long and fairly strong relationship with a guy, the thought of marriage seems natural. At the same time, she is constantly looking for confirmation, visible or invisible, of his desire to marry her. There is a list of certain signs that a guy is ready to start a family.
Instructions
Step 1
He himself talks about marriage. Maybe he is not making an official offer yet, but in the circle of friends he introduces you as his bride. It is important here to determine if he is lying for selfish purposes (perhaps he is sure that in this way you will quickly agree to sex). For your part, you can arrange for a small check. For example, make plans for the next summer or suggest going to a jewelry store to see rings. You will understand everything from the response.
Step 2
Makes plans with the wording "you and me", "we are together", "our car", etc. That is, it shows in every possible way that you have a common future, that there is a place for you in its future life.
Step 3
Introduces parents. At the same time, he jealously monitors whether they liked you, and you liked them. And if suddenly you did not manage to make a proper impression on his relatives, and he nevertheless continues the relationship, then his intentions are serious and no one will stop him from marrying you, even if the closest people are among the opponents.
Step 4
Constantly demonstrates reliability and seriousness. Does not flirt in front of you with others, does not let go of phrases addressed to women around you that can offend or hurt you. Does not compare with others (and if he makes a comparison, it is only in your favor), protects and takes care of you.
Step 5
He willingly communicates with married friends and fiddles with their children. Asks the question "I wonder who we will have - a boy or a girl?" or “Who would you like first - a son or a daughter?”, or even thinks up names for future children. Definitely wants to get married!
Step 6
Take a closer look at it. If there are some changes in his behavior - he started saving money (saving up for a wedding?), Plans to buy a car (go to the dacha with you?), Wants to move to a higher-paying job, makes some purchases - conduct an unobtrusive reconnaissance in force”And find out if this is really what you thought. If all his actions concern your joint future, it will not be difficult for you to find out about it. Just proceed with caution, it is possible that he is preparing a surprise for you and will be upset if you rudely intrude into his plans.
