Sometimes teenagers are aggressive and uncontrollable. The reasons for this behavior can be different. These include family relationships, genetic conditioning, and much more.
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Step 1
One of the main reasons for adolescent aggressiveness can be safely called the specifics of parenting a child. Some mothers and fathers, from childhood, encourage their child if it responds with aggression to interference in personal space from other children. Such moments cannot pass without a trace. With age, the situation is aggravated, and the teenager shows aggression already without an appropriate reason.
Step 2
The direct relationship between parents also plays a role in how their son or daughter grows up. If in the family you can often hear how mom and dad are swearing, if there are cases of assault, mutual humiliation and insults, the child can also begin to behave rather aggressively. For him, this way of communication becomes the norm, because parents are the authority in childhood for the child, and he easily absorbs the peculiarities of their communications.
Step 3
The suppression of a child's emotions by his parents can also lead to aggression during adolescence. If mom and dad from childhood teach the child to restrain himself, to keep feelings in himself, sooner or later all accumulated experiences can splash out through the aggressive behavior of the teenager. Parents need to teach the child not to ignore their own feelings, but to interpret them correctly and cope with negative manifestations of emotions, and not with the experiences themselves.
Step 4
Sometimes unreasonable aggression acts as a way for a teenager to achieve his own. He does not know how else he can get what he wants, or he does not want to act more peacefully, since he believes that with the help of aggressive behavior it is possible to achieve his goals faster and more accurately. This applies to a wide variety of life situations. The reluctance and inability to conduct effective negotiations with other members of society forces the teenager to resolve the issue by force.
Step 5
The susceptibility and suggestibility of a person in adolescence also plays a significant role in the growth of his aggressiveness. Teenagers easily absorb the standards of behavior from horror films, crime reports, computer games with elements of violence and adopt the habit of showing aggression from each other. Social circle is very important for a boy or girl. They do not want to stand out from the crowd and easily mistake antisocial behavior for the norm.
Step 6
Do not forget that sometimes the aggressiveness of adolescents is caused by hormonal changes. The beginning of the functioning of the gonads causes a real storm of emotions, which a young man or girl simply cannot cope with. Restlessness, irritability, impulsivity and aggression appear.
