Are you constantly making excuses? For the fact that by the age of 30 they could not get married / get married. For not having your own car, but taking the subway or minibuses to work. For continuing to live with your parents, even though you are over 30 years old.
Perhaps, in some cases, excuses are quite appropriate. However, there are situations and views that cannot be justified.
Appearance
Remember that you are who you are. You can be thin or fat, red or blonde, fit or with a beer belly. Naturally, someone may not like you. There will always be people who will judge you. But the appearance is only your business. And there is no need to make excuses to anyone in this situation.
Decisions taken
Do you want to quit your job? Or move to another country? Or maybe you decided to get a divorce? Do what you want to do. Do what is best for you. Others will judge your decisions, either out of envy or because they don't benefit from your decision. Or they may not be able to make the decision that you were able to make.
No desire to communicate
Everyone needs a personal space in which there is no place for anyone else. And this is quite normal. After all, people who cannot live without communication are the exception, not the rule.
Therefore, you should not feel guilty if there is no desire to visit friends or relatives. No need to make excuses if you don't want to communicate with former classmates. Moreover, there is no need to force yourself to do anything through force.
Negative responses
Not all people are capable of refusing. And when they do have to say no, it is usually accompanied by excuses. But in this case it is not worth making excuses even if someone didn’t like the reaction to the refusal. Remember that you can always say “no” without explaining anything, and without excuses.
Tastes and outlook on life
Only you decide what to eat, whether to drink alcohol, whether to wear jeans or choose a dress. Tastes differ. Therefore, not only do you not need to explain your own tastes, but you should not make excuses either.
You don't have to justify your own views on life, defend your beliefs, try to explain your point of view. And there is no need to demand explanations from those who do not share your worldview. This will not lead to anything good. It is best to declare your disagreement without getting into conflict.
