You broke up, but he's trying to get you back. Can you succumb to his exactingness and promises and renew the relationship? Here's a quick overview of the men who are definitely not worth your attention.
Alcoholic
Whether he got drunk every night with friends or several times a month, his attitude to alcohol was a frequent subject of your controversy. He may not be in the process of hiding a bottle of vodka in a dresser, but you had a reasonable suspicion that he drank a lot more than most people, and especially you thought. Forget that you can change the alcoholic or that he himself will change because of you.
Addict
Did he play slot machines or even have a drug addiction? Now he wants to return and claims that his addiction will never be able to overcome without you, and you are his last hope for a return ticket to normal life. He emotionally blackmails you and makes you responsible for his own destiny. Do not let him manipulate you, he must fight his addiction, first of all, himself, along with the advice of experts. You can offer your support, but don't try to deal with his problems alone. It is more likely that you will roll downhill together.
Hooligan
Has he ever slapped you in the face? Then the choice is clear. Under no circumstances or under any circumstances give him a second chance. There is no justification for violence, no one has the right to it, even in a fit of anger. The man who hit you once will do it again anytime.
