In the relationship of two people, there is a place for betrayal and treason. Infidelity does not always mean that the partner has no feelings, because he could have made a mistake that he regrets. But there are cases when “changed” is equal to “fell out of love”.
Spiritual connection
Cheating can be more than just physical. It is much worse if the person has entered into a strong emotional bond with another woman. In the practice of family psychologists, there are often couples who were able to experience that one partner turned out to be unfaithful. He could have copulated with an unfamiliar woman while intoxicated or sinned because of family problems. But if he felt love for another girl, stopped perceiving her only as a sexual object, then this is more of a simple affair. In such cases, family relationships are difficult to restore, because "changed" means "fell out of love."
Cheating with a girlfriend
Often there are men who can cheat on a partner with her best friend or relative. The same can be said about girls who sin with their husband's friends. A loving person does not do this, knowing about the emotional attachment of a partner to his environment. Such a betrayal becomes a double blow to the feelings of half. After such a betrayal, it can be argued that the betrayer has fallen out of love with the partner.
Multiple betrayal
It is said that a person who has betrayed once will do it again. It is possible to believe in the correction of a traitor, but if he repeats his sin periodically, coming up with new excuses, it can hardly be a matter of strong feelings. Frequent adultery with one woman or different women does not indicate polygamy, but the partner's irresponsibility. In this case, betrayal is equal to the lack of love for your half.
Preference for another
The most difficult betrayal occurs when a woman with whom a man has a long-term relationship, he prefers another. Neglect of the interests of the former can be expressed in a sharp departure from her, deliberately fomenting a scandal. He can kick his faithful wife out of the house in order to start another relationship with a younger or more attractive woman. When a man prefers novelty to fidelity and stability, there can be no question of love for half.
Lack of remorse
A man who has gone to the left without feeling remorse about this cannot love. If he talks about his act to a constant partner, emphasizing that the fact of betrayal is insignificant, then infidelity is equal to the lack of love. The excuses in this case are superficial. He doesn't care too much if the offended girl stays with him. Psychologists call this "loneliness syndrome", when a person is confident in himself and does not seek to settle down, seeking pleasure and variety from life. If a person is so selfish, he is incapable of high feelings.
