Insecure people always fail. They are afraid to take on something new, they miss the opportunities that float into their hands, they are afraid of communication and acquaintances. So what prevents you from believing in yourself and achieving success?
Instructions
Step 1
The internet is teeming with tips, training, and confidence building techniques. Unfortunately, not all of them can really help. After all, the constant comprehension of their problems and, at the same time, inaction can hardly help to regain lost confidence.
Step 2
Soberly assess your strength. Do not rush into battle to build confidence, it can end in failure. To be confident in your abilities, you need to convince yourself by actions that you really can do something. Approach problems from different angles, divide global ones into small steps - this way it is easier to achieve a result and, most importantly, to notice and evaluate it.
Step 3
Take action. Sitting by your computer and reading new self-digging techniques to find confidence is not going to accomplish much. Set goals and achieve them. Uncertainty always comes from a negative or lack of a positive assessment of any action (in childhood, past). That is why it is worth convincing yourself and feeding your confidence with actions-proofs that you can do a lot.
Step 4
Accept your flaws. All people are imperfect. Someone gets one thing, someone else. And this does not mean at all that one is normal, and the other is a deviation from the norm. It's just that everyone is different, and you need to learn to accept yourself as you are.
Step 5
Express your emotions, do not close them inside, pondering after weeks at home. Yes, some may not like it. But to please everyone means not to please anyone. Do not try to please everyone, think about yourself, about your needs and desires, and then life will seem much easier.
Step 6
Live for today, achieve your goals gradually, do not look back, all your goals are just ahead, calmly accept your mistakes and failures, and your confidence will not keep you waiting.
