Some people feel that their character is different from what they should have. But for some reason, few are trying to correct these shortcomings and improve their inner qualities. But there are special techniques for this.
Instructions
Step 1
For example, you want to get rid of those qualities that you consider negative. Ask yourself the question: "What are they for?" If it's greed, then perhaps it helps you become more economical. And cowardice allows you to avoid dangerous situations. Think about where these character traits came from in you. There must be a reason for this.
Step 2
Decide for yourself if you really have these qualities. Maybe you just believed someone else's opinion. Very often this happens due to the fact that your parents constantly told you that you are a very awkward child. And you've grown up confident that it's true. But in fact, you have a normal reaction, and awkwardness arises only in the presence of your parents, because they instilled this idea in you.
Step 3
Decide what qualities you lack. Try to formulate this idea clearly enough. For example: "I want to become more confident." Repeat it to yourself and out loud very often. The phrase about the realization of the desired will help to approve the effect. Repeat them together: “I want to be more confident. I became confident."
Step 4
You probably have a person who is your hero. It can be a politician, artist, film actor. The main thing is that you respect this person and value them for their character traits. Try to try their life on yourself. Think about how they would act in a certain situation and try to do the same.
Step 5
In order to consolidate the desired image, imagine that you have already become the owner of these character traits. To do this, close your eyes, mentally imagine yourself renewed. Try to hold on to this image for a few minutes. This exercise is very convenient to perform early in the morning and before bedtime, while in bed.
Step 6
Understand that character traits are not just one trait. They usually consist of several components. What is greed? It is a habit of constantly calculating income and expenses. The habit of saving on everything, the habit of never showing others your financial capabilities. Try to replace these habits with others. Show generosity. Lend to friends, at least small amounts. You will feel discomfort at first, but gradually you will get used to it.
