Each person strives to please others. And this desire is natural for everyone. But why are some always in the spotlight, while others find communication so difficult? Much depends on whether you know how to communicate with the people around you.
Instructions
Step 1
First of all, in order to please other people, you need to love yourself and treat yourself with respect. Remember that you are a unique person, there is no such person anymore. If you don't learn to like yourself, you will never like others. Build self-esteem, always be self-confident.
Step 2
An important role for the charm of others is played by the appearance of a person. At the same time, it is not necessary to have a model appearance with the notorious 90-60-90. It is important to be always well-groomed and tidy, to have your own style of dress.
In addition, the ability to present yourself is very important, to emphasize all the dignity of your own body. This will help facial expressions, laughter, eloquence of the look, as well as many other factors that emphasize the beauty of a person much more strongly than cosmetics or fashionable clothes.
Step 3
Be positive about everything. Smile and laugh often. Humor is a great way to make a good impression on people. After all, cheerful people in the company are always in the spotlight, and sad people are bored alone.
Step 4
Be a good listener. After all, listening is one of the foundations of correct communication. You yourself probably know the feeling of gratitude when you are listened to. Therefore, do not be afraid to give it to others. Show a genuine interest in people. Encourage the interlocutor to talk about himself, about his achievements. Ask questions that the other person will be pleased to answer.
Step 5
Don't be afraid to say more kind words. This does not mean that you urgently need to start flattering. You can compliment a colleague who looks good, praise the hostess for an unusual dish while visiting, admire someone's courageous deed. Learn to recognize the dignity of a person.
Step 6
Always maintain your dignity in any conflict. Do not respond with harshness to harshness, but rather calmly argue with your arguments. Respect other people's opinions, and if you are wrong, then agree.
