The desire to be liked is one of the strongest aspirations of a person. A huge number of things, even if they are not aware of it themselves, are done by people with the sole purpose of being noticed and loved. Those who manage to gain attention and love from others are infinitely happy. Those who feel that they are not loved are deeply unhappy.
Instructions
Step 1
They are met by clothes Whether a person likes or dislikes the people around him, is determined by two things - his appearance and behavior. If people don't like you, it is possible that there is something repulsive about your appearance. Those who have good looks are very lucky in life. They don't even need to care about their behavior and appearance, people already like them. Those who do not have a beautiful appearance have to make an effort to look more attractive. There can be only one advice in this case - body care and good clothing. All of these can transform your look.
Step 2
Keep yourself in good physical shape, be neat, try to dress well, visit beauty salons. You like well-dressed and well-groomed people more than unkempt and badly dressed people? People feel exactly the same way about you, depending on how you look. Unfortunately, there are people with physical disabilities that cannot be corrected by any fitness or clothing. Any physical abnormality, ugly facial features repel others, despite the fact that the spiritual qualities of such people can be the most excellent. In this case, there is little to advise, except perhaps a visit to a plastic surgeon.
Step 3
If the antipathy instilled in appearance can not always be overcome, then in terms of behavior, we are most often the culprits of self-loathing. The reasons why one person may not like other people have long been known to psychologists. It is also known how to behave in order to please others.
Step 4
Don't be too self-centered. To please people, you need to think not only about yourself, but also show interest in others. Praise their appearance, inquire about what worries them, pay tribute to their merits. The simplest phrase that your officemate has a great hairstyle can make her happy for a few days - happy and grateful to you.
Step 5
Get rid of the gloomy, displeased expression on your face. Your sour face can tell others that you don't like them, or even that you despise them. Although in fact this is not true. Smile at people. This commonplace advice is known to everyone, but nevertheless many neglect it. Especially in Russia, which foreigners consider the "Country of Gloomy People." And try to keep your smile as genuine as possible, even if it really isn't.
Step 6
When addressing the interlocutor, call him by name more often. It is known, after all, that the most pleasant sound for a person is his name, which sounds in the mouths of others. Especially if it sounds in an affectionate form: Olenka, Igorek, Lyovushka, etc.
Step 7
Listen to people. It can be difficult sometimes, especially when dealing with overly talkative people. But you have to overcome yourself. Much is not required from you. People love to talk about themselves so much that it is completely unnecessary to encourage them to do so. Just listen and look them in the eye. If you yourself have to be the initiator of the conversation, then talk about what is interesting to your interlocutor. Or, in any case, do not talk about what he is completely indifferent to. So, listen a lot and talk a little about what is in the circle of interests of the interlocutor. And everyone will consider you a great conversationalist and love to communicate with you.
Step 8
Do not be conflicted, do not argue over any trifle. There are people obsessed with the desire to "cut the whole truth-womb in the eyes" of their interlocutors - about themselves, about events, about everything that exists. Nobody likes such people, so don't be like that. Allow the interlocutor to have his own opinion about everything, do not dissuade him and do not try to guide him on the path of truth known only to you. All the same, you will not convince anyone, but only increase the circle of your ill-wishers. Be, as they say, political.
