An unconditional positive attitude towards the client is one of the most important components of psychological counseling. The consultant, accepting the subjective world of the client, will be able to quickly realize the set goals.
Instructions
Step 1
Learn to accept yourself for who you are. A person cannot relate favorably to other people until they achieve self-esteem.
Step 2
Get rid of labels. The qualities for which you respect yourself are not a shared value for other people.
Step 3
Remember that every personality trait has two sides to the coin. Learn to accept both positive and negative characteristics of the client.
Step 4
Try to be sincere, honest.
Step 5
Refuse to present any conditions. Remember that no one owes anything to anyone.
Step 6
When working with a client, put his life values above yours.
Step 7
Try to disable monitoring and control functions. Give the client freedom of action.
Step 8
Train an unconditional positive attitude with zootherapy, garden therapy. A person loves animals and flowers for the very fact of their existence, while not asking for anything in return.
Step 9
Try to compliment unfamiliar people and people who annoy you more often.
Step 10
Always remember that each case is unique. Listen to customers to the end, trying to show interest in the problem. Try to convey to people that they are accepted, respected, and loved.
