In the first moments of your child's life, you understand - this is real happiness. But the proud title of a parent is also a great responsibility. Parenting problems, childhood illnesses, constant fatigue and anxiety distort the concept of a family idyll. Learn the rules for keeping yourself and your child happy.
Instructions
Step 1
The birth of a child is one of the most important events in the life of every person. This is a new and difficult stage in the life of a family, and in order to become good, wise and happy parents, you need to learn to abstract yourself from everyday life problems, forget about offenses and incessant fatigue. And most importantly, you need to build your relationship with the new man on trust and optimism.
Step 2
The first thing psychologists advise is to trust your heart. The experience of caring for a child has been accumulating in genes for thousands of years, and every mother instinctively knows what is best for her baby. Other people's experiences are undeniably rewarding, but the main thing is to listen to yourself.
Step 3
The second rule of happy parents is wise love. You should not expect the supernatural from the child and shift your unrealized dreams onto him. You need to love the baby for who he is, honestly accept his needs and opportunities.
Step 4
According to the third rule of happiness for both parents and a child, you need to try to be with him more often. This does not have to be an active pastime, it is very useful to teach the child that the parents have urgent and important things to do, but you can do this next to or with him. And you should not take this as indulging the desire for closeness of the baby - psychologists say that this method helps children feel safe, builds trusting relationships with their parents.
Step 5
The fourth rule is that parents have the right to be tired and in a bad mood. Hiding negative emotions is very unhealthy. It is only important to learn how to switch on time or pour out the negative. It is better to explain to the child that mom or dad is bad, because he is a full partner in family relations and over time will understand that you need to feel sorry for the parents, and not just him.
Step 6
And the last, fifth rule - rest from children. Parents are also living people, and they need not to dwell on their lives only on the child. First of all, parents are a man and a woman who gave birth to their baby in love. Their main task is to preserve love, passion and romance, and for this you just need to take time to your relationship. After all, happiness is impossible without love.
