Since childhood, many people are accustomed to agreeing with everyone. The reason for this may be too strict parents, and the pressure exerted at school by teachers, and some other factors. But as you become an adult and independent, you need to learn how to express disagreement.
Instructions
Step 1
If a loved one, who has always been an authority for you, insists on his position, try to enter into a dialogue. Do not express disagreement right away, it can cause aggression. Gradually let us understand that you have your own opinion, different from your opponent. Explain why you can't say yes right away this time. Give serious arguments. Most likely, your point of view will be considered, and a decision is made that takes into account the interests of both parties.
Step 2
If you disagree with a higher ranking person, express this by appealing to the best outcome for the company. Tell us why it would be better to do it the way you want. And why the course of action suggested by the management will not bring the desired results. Perhaps your boss is simply not aware of some of the specifics of your job. And if you correctly argue your disagreement, then he will give you the opportunity to make a decision on your own employment.
Step 3
You always want to agree with your loved one. But this behavior can lead to unpleasant consequences. The other half will simply stop taking you seriously. Therefore, if you have an opinion that differs from the considerations of a loved one, be sure to express it. Do not think that this will offend someone you care about. If the feelings are mutual, he will definitely listen to you. Moreover, the ability to find a compromise is very important for creating a strong friendly family.
Step 4
When expressing disagreement, do not say that the other person is wrong. He just has a different view of things. Calmly express your own point of view and give arguments in its favor. If the person does not understand it, explain why you think so. Lead a dialogue, not a monologue. Most often, the right decision is born precisely in disputes when one side does not agree with the other.