Wrong, understanding of reality leads to disappointment, problems, grief. In order to soberly assess life situations, it is necessary to get rid of naivety. This quality is appropriate in childhood, but in no way suitable for an independent and responsible person.
Instructions
Step 1
Conquer your fear of life. Perhaps naivety is your subconscious defense against adversity and the negative sides of reality. Understand that the fact that you refuse to see problems, they will not disappear. Proactive action is an effective way to change personal circumstances for the better.
Step 2
Admit your naivety. Understand the reasons for the next failure. Do not blame only others for everything, but be critical of your behavior. Imagine how events would develop if you acted like an adult.
Step 3
Get rid of the little girl image. If you've chosen naivety as your opposite sex strategy, chances are your actions are doomed to fail. Your image can attract a young man only at the stage of flirting. For a serious relationship, an adult man needs an independent, intelligent and adequate life companion.
Step 4
Understand that naivety can only touch those around you. If you want people to take you seriously, try to win your friendship, and respect your opinion, you need to become a tougher, more discerning person. Only then will you become a full-fledged member of the team.
Step 5
Keep in mind that being naive can even be dangerous. You should not trust strangers, because some of them can use you for their own ends. Respect yourself and do not let others neglect your interests for profit.
Step 6
Listen to your intuition. Many years of life experience is accumulating in your subconscious. In difficult situations, your brain sends a signal of what to do. Do not neglect this feeling, it can help you make the right choice.
Step 7
Learn. Learn to learn from your own and others' mistakes. Read classics describing people and exploring the motives of their actions. Watch films about the life of ordinary people, about their relationships. Study those around you carefully. Read several books on personality psychology. All this will help you to stop being deceived.
