Even in ancient times, people understood a simple thing: in reality there is no ideal. Accordingly, each of us has some shortcomings that often hinder us in everyday life or in communication and make life difficult. However, the very first attempts to get rid of their own shortcomings show that this is not so easy.
Instructions
Step 1
To overcome your own shortcomings, first of all, you need to see them in yourself. No wonder there is such an image: he sees a speck in someone else's eye, but does not notice a log in his own. So, in order to effectively eliminate your own shortcomings, you need to clearly understand how they are expressed. And this requires correct self-esteem, not overestimated or underestimated. Only in this case will you be able to see and really appreciate your negative features.
Step 2
If you know exactly what your flaws are and when they appear, try to avoid situations that provoke their manifestation.
Step 3
Engage in auto-training. Mentally transfer yourself to this or that situation in which your shortcomings are manifested strongly. Try to cope with them in your imagination, suppress them in yourself. Mentally act as you think it would be, ideally. Just don't resort to all kinds of dreams of magic and the like. Imagined situations and the right way out of them without showing flaws must be realistic. Be sure to emerge victorious from the circumstances presented. Such modeling of all kinds of situations in your imagination and the suppression of the manifestation of shortcomings in them will make it easier to transfer the correct conduct to practice.
Step 4
Learn to restrain yourself. As much as you want to do wrong, obey your mind, not your emotions. And he will definitely tell you the right decision. Don't be led by desires.
Step 5
And most importantly - do not blame anyone for your shortcomings. To understand what is the reason for their manifestation and how to get rid of them, it is necessary, first of all, to understand yourself. Try to understand what caused your flaws.
Step 6
To eliminate, and not aggravate, the manifestation of shortcomings, avoid not only their systematic manifestation, but also one-time. Remember: action breeds habit, habit breeds character, character breeds destiny! Thus, in order to overcome your shortcomings, you need to constantly work on yourself, and, therefore, on your merits. And the struggle to eliminate one's own shortcomings is, first of all, a struggle with oneself!
