The agonizing shyness that interferes with communication can be a real punishment for an insecure person. The girl falls into despair, not knowing how to respond to the boy's courtship or even just keep up a conversation with him. To overcome this problem, you need to find its causes.
Instructions
Step 1
Fear of guys is usually triggered by thinking: what will they think of me? What impression do I make? To avoid these concerns, try making friends with the same interests. If you have a hobby, try to find like-minded people on the Internet.
Step 2
Shy people find it easier to communicate in the virtual space, especially if they share common interests with the interlocutor. Gradually, you will develop communication skills that you can apply in real life.
Step 3
Find fellow interests in your city. If you are well versed in the matter, even the most attractive guys who drive you into paint will be interested in communicating with you, even if not as a girl, but as a specialist. This will help you get used to talking freely with men.
Step 4
Traditional tourism helps to develop communication skills. Multi-day trips, joint solution of common problems will force you to communicate with guys on business, teach you to accept and offer help, answer a joke to a joke. Participate in mass gatherings where light, unnecessary conversations spontaneously spring up.
Step 5
If your shyness is related to some aspect of your appearance, consider how to fix it. You can get rid of excess weight with the help of diets and sports, from skin problems - special care, etc.
Step 6
Learn to communicate with guys from your relaxed girlfriends. See how they respond to jokes and compliments, and decide which techniques you can adopt. Ask your friends for help - let them take you with them to "parties" and support you when communicating with guys.
Step 7
Do not forget that many men value shyness in girls very much, unless it turns into unsociability, and consider it a sign of femininity. So don't go overboard by getting rid of this cute flaw.
