Only the heroes of novels are ideal; in ordinary life, people have many shortcomings. Someone lives with them all their lives, while others work on themselves and manage to turn them into dignity.
Instructions
Step 1
It's nice to be lazy - lying on the couch with a book or watching an interesting movie. It can be so difficult to force yourself to get up and do work or necessary household chores. Consider if you have a chance to optimize your activities so that you have more time to rest. If long, monotonous work does not suit you, break the entire volume of tasks into several stages and distribute them throughout the day. Try to work hard for an hour, spend the next hour resting, and then at a fast pace do the next batch of tasks, so that then nothing else will be done for two hours. If you can work quickly and efficiently, at that pace you can accomplish more than usual.
Step 2
It is even easier with household chores, because lazy humanity has come up with so many helpers. Think about what technique could make your life easier. You may need a dishwasher, multicooker, or robot vacuum cleaner. They will save you time and effort, and in the eyes of others you will not be a lazy person, but a practical person who values your time.
Step 3
Sometimes it is not easy for an indecisive person to live. He needs a lot of effort to defend his opinion and achieve what he wants. However, if you look at this character trait from a different angle, then it may turn out to be a tendency to non-conflict. Non-conflict people are timid and sweet, and those around them often have a desire to protect and protect them. An employee who is not in the habit of causing scandals will appeal to many leaders and will be able to build equal relationships with colleagues, avoiding gossip and coalition building. Therefore, in your resume, feel free to write this drawback, which easily turns into dignity, and at your leisure, practice saying "no" to especially arrogant individuals who strive to sit on your neck.
Step 4
Periodically arising anger and irritation require an exit, and you rush to family members, colleagues or passers-by? Such a disadvantage can spoil relations with others, but it does not always work to restrain oneself, no matter how much one wants. Channel your aggression in a different direction - go in for sports where she could find a way out. Boxing, wrestling, extreme sports will suit you. Adrenaline will be released when it should be - during active physical activity, and you will return home tired and calm. You are no longer an aggressor who does not know how to control yourself, but a person who can stand up for yourself.
