Insecure people rarely succeed in life. To build a career and build a strong family, you need to be a brave and determined person. And do not hesitate to express your own opinion in a conversation.
Instructions
Step 1
If you are shy about talking to strangers, look for reasons for your insecurity. Perhaps sometime in childhood you were offended by a stranger, you were frightened, and this feeling was remembered for a lifetime. Analyze your past. Scroll through the situation again. Tell yourself that you are a different person now, strong and courageous. And no one can hurt you. Especially in ordinary conversation.
Step 2
Imagine that you have a conversation with a loved one, whom you are not shy about. Imagine a dialogue in your mind, what words you would use, how long the communication would last. Find pleasing features in the person you are talking to. Treat him like a good friend.
Step 3
If you are shy, do not use unfamiliar or difficult to pronounce words. You can become even more confused and completely confused. Use simple, understandable language.
Step 4
If you have a sensitive conversation, try to replace the pronounced words and phrases with streamlined ones. This will make it easier for both you and the interlocutor.
Step 5
Not everyone can be a great speaker. And not everyone needs it. Don't worry about not always being able to express your thoughts clearly. This will make you feel more embarrassed. Relax when communicating with your interlocutor. Then the necessary phrases will come to mind by themselves.
Step 6
If you are embarrassed to communicate in real life, look for acquaintances on the Internet. Without seeing the interlocutor, it is much easier to strike up a conversation. And after getting to know your friends on the forum better, make an appointment. By talking to familiar opponents, you will learn the most important communication skills - openness and goodwill.
Step 7
If you can't overcome shyness, sign up for a communication training. During the session, you will talk about various topics with other participants. An experienced instructor will point out your weak points during dialogue and show you how to increase your ability to communicate successfully.
