Life is all about ups and downs. Therefore, it is not known what awaits you every day. In moments when it's good, no one thinks about the time, and in moments of betrayal, betrayal or parting, views change, rose-colored glasses fly off, and it's time to learn to live on, to enjoy every moment. And sometimes advice from the Internet, as well as the support of loved ones, can help overcome bad thoughts and go forward.
There is a phrase that time heals. Is it true?
People like to say "time heals", "everything will pass with time", but can you believe in this? When people say every day that time is a medicine, people involuntarily begin to agree with this. Some people know that time will not help to forget, for example, a loved one. All the same, in any case, there are memories of him that make you suffer every day, month, year or even several years. Only you can help yourself. No amount of time will heal the wound or lift you out of depression.
In order for everything to be good, you must first of all believe in yourself.
Everyone has their own problems and their own personal case. It cannot be denied that time can help to forget, there is a place for such to be. You probably know the story of two girls who were waiting for their prince. And when they met him, both fell in love, and he did not reciprocate. As a result, one pulled herself together and forgot, by communicating with new people, while the other believed that time would help her to heal, and suffered for many years. As a result, the first girl found herself a young man, and the second believed that soon everything would be forgotten by itself. But nothing happens by itself. The moral is that you shouldn't wait until a miracle happens and everything goes away, you need to move on, look for ways of development. You just need to remember that life is given to enjoy it, and not to suffer and be sad.
Of course, when a rather long time passes from the moment of parting with your loved one, you start to think less about him. Someone even thinks that over time, they gradually begin to forget everything. In fact, only those moments are forgotten that had no special value in your life.
If the person really meant something to you, no time will be able to heal your mental wounds.
Self-healing tips
First, you need to want to change the situation for the better. Secondly, you need to stop thinking about the bad. To do this, you should come up with a goal to which you will strive. Thirdly, you need to take care of the appearance. Try to go to the SPA-salon, hairdresser.
Get strong, learn to say no, defend your interests, and never let other people humiliate you. In addition to all of the above, you need to find an interesting job, go somewhere to relax or sit with a cup of coffee in a cozy cafe with your best friends.
There is no need to hope for time. Believe only in yourself.
