Many couples get divorced after several years of marriage. But after all, being at the altar, it is not at all thought that the person next to him after a while will be unpleasant, that any trifle associated with him will begin to annoy.
Psychologists have identified 6 main reasons for divorce. Oddly enough, the first reason is the unpreparedness of young couples for marriage. If the marriage takes place before living together, then it will be difficult for the couple to find compromises. And after the quarrels, there will be a divorce.
The second reason is the addiction of one of the spouses. They are on everyone's lips: alcohol, smoking, gambling or drugs. If the chosen one does not want to change for the better and give up his habit, then it will come to divorce.
The third reason is infidelity, or treason. Sometimes both spouses are to blame for the infidelity of one, but, nevertheless, it is very difficult to forgive her. For many, this does not work, and the couple ends up getting divorced.
The fourth reason is the unstable financial situation in the family. The main reason is the lack of housing, the inability to buy your own apartment, as living with your parents is also a challenge.
The fifth reason is different views on life. For example, the spouse prefers hard rock, and the spouse listens exclusively to classical music. Most likely, this couple is from different social backgrounds. Against the background of falling in love, the differences are not noticeable, but when it passes, everything falls into place.
The sixth reason is the most delicate. This is either dissatisfaction in bed or problems with reproductive function. Instead of solving such problems together, couples often break up. Perhaps there will be more minuses in the chosen one than it will be possible to endure, forgive and understand, and the opposite situation is also possible. When, after careful weighing, the chosen one was seen in the best light. Loving people can always solve all problems and save the marriage. But there are times when love leaves with the unwillingness of the other half to change something in themselves, to do everything to strengthen the relationship. When no one wants to listen to anyone anymore, understand, it is worth trying to solve these problems. If it doesn't work out, then divorce is inevitable. But trying is not torture.
Most importantly, behind the quarrels, do not forget the good moments that were in the relationship. Happiness often goes alongside unhappiness.
