The existing cognitive differences between the sexes explain why men and women respond differently to the same situations. Differing in thinking, worldview, psychology, women are more emotional and impulsive than men.
Causes of male indifference
Male indifference is often explained by the behavior of the girl. If a girl actively expresses feelings and emotions, demonstrating her dependence on relationships with a man, then the hunter's instinct “falls asleep”. Such a man becomes passive, he has no one to conquer, fight, perform feats, because a woman is already in his power.
A man may lose interest in a woman who constantly talks about starting a family, insists on marriage. This behavior of a woman scares off a man, he feels tension, because his personal freedom is under threat. As a result, he will make much less effort in developing a relationship with a girl.
Aggressiveness, conflict, unreasonable jealousy can also irritate a man, discouraging him from continuing a relationship with a girl. A man can lose interest after a girl's constant tantrums for minor reasons. Such a woman loses charm and attractiveness in his eyes.
A man's indifference can come in the course of a long-term relationship with a girl. From the point of view of psychology, over time, a man's body develops immunity for hormones that entered his body during falling in love. Therefore, over time, his feelings become dulled, the girl does not cause him the same storm of emotions. The man becomes inactive and indifferent.
Previous negative experience also forces a man to be careful with the choice of a companion, forcing him not to show active emotions: confess his love, dedicate poems, perform beautiful deeds, and more. In general, the speed of development of emotions and reactions between the sexes varies greatly, so the behavior of a man may not correspond to the expectations of a girl.
Attitude towards male indifference
To treat male indifference in each individual case should be different, depending on the reason. It is necessary to analyze what exactly caused this behavior of the man and changes in his mood.
If a man is carried away by another girl, then his behavior towards his former partner will be apathetic. Each woman in such a situation decides on her own which line of behavior to choose. Some women begin to actively hold the man, throwing tantrums, while others show indifference to what is happening.
A man's indifference can be explained by problems at work and other reasons not related to the girl. A man in such a situation also looks detached and indifferent towards a woman. First, he must solve the current problems, because his mind is completely occupied with finding such a solution.
In this example, the girl should react to the man's behavior with understanding. It is recommended to give him time to think, without putting pressure on him, without interfering with questions. Every person needs peace and solitude from time to time. Soon, the man, having balanced his condition and resolving difficulties, will return to the woman as before.
In most cases, a frank conversation with a man helps to understand the cause of indifference. After analyzing the situation, a woman should choose the right moment for a conversation and win over a man to her.
Differences in behavior between the sexes
In most cases, a man and a woman can experience the same feelings, but their behavior will be different. A man will be able to maintain prudence and external equanimity, but the girl will most likely react brightly and violently in this situation. In this case, she will be alarmed and disturbed by the man's external indifference. It is due to the difference in individual behavioral characteristics between the sexes that a woman may feel that a man is indifferent to her.
Despite the fact that the level of emotional intelligence between men and women does not differ greatly, women experience certain events more vividly than men. Empathy is characteristic of the female sex: they can easily understand the feelings of another person, support him and sympathize with him.
Girls are more impressionable, they openly share feelings and express emotions, their mood is easy to “read”. Often the actions of women are dictated by momentary emotions. They have better developed intuition. The female sex often talks about relationships, analyzes their development, drawing men into conversation. The female half is characterized by anxiety and anxiety for minor reasons.
Men, on the other hand, are slower to make decisions about a serious relationship and rarely act on impulse. On the contrary, the stronger sex is characterized by self-control, stress resistance, prudence.
Life situations require from a man high responsibility, calmness, inner strength. Emotionality and experiences prevent a man from thinking logically, analyzing a problem and making adequate decisions in difficult situations. The emotional differences between the sexes are also explained by upbringing. Most parents teach boys in childhood to hide emotions by suppressing their tearfulness. At the same time, girls are allowed to show emotions, so they grow up to be more empathetic and affectionate.
In general, long-term strong emotions are stressful for the human body, forcing it to work harder. A man seeks to conserve energy and strength for solving problems, therefore, male emotionality is lower than female. It's hard to find a man nervous or panicking over a trifle. Therefore, women and men behave differently in relationships and react to certain situations.
