Man is a social being, but there are times in life when you are forced to be alone. This is not a tragedy, you can get used to solitude and even start to enjoy it.
Self love
Even though it seems to you that everyone has forgotten about you, and you are not interesting to anyone, remember that there is a person whose love you can always count on. And this person is yourself. Show your feelings, treat yourself the way you would treat a partner you are in love with or your child. As you walk past the mirror, smile at the reflection, buy yourself beautiful clothes and jewelry, take yourself to the cinema and to the skating rink, cook tasty and healthy meals, order food from restaurants when you are very tired and have no strength to stand at the stove, carefully beat your pillow before going to bed and tuck in the blanket. Surround yourself with care, and you will not feel lonely, because you give yourself the necessary emotions.
The beauty of loneliness
Loneliness has been praised by many philosophers, poets, and writers. It brought them the opportunity to rethink many of the events of their lives. The pacifying loneliness gave an impetus to creativity: amazing masterpieces came out from under the brush or pen. Of course, the theme of loneliness is revealed from the positive side in many works. Get a notebook or folder on your computer and start collecting the best quotes about this condition. If melancholy attacks you, you can open your notebook and remember why you love your solitude.
Personal time
You can devote all the free time that otherwise would have been spent on other people. And try to make it as interesting as possible. Jump with a parachute, learn to fly a helicopter and dance salsa, sign up for cooking classes with a famous foreign chef, visit the most interesting places, read books avidly. Perhaps when you are not alone, you will no longer have the opportunity to watch the series all night, but now you can afford it - so use it.
Building relationships with society
Public opinion can make loneliness more painful than it really is. Relatives at the festive table are caringly interested in why you are still not married, employees nod sympathetically and offer to introduce you to any free relative, friends recommend that you change your dress style, then go to a fortune-teller. Make sure that these compassionate people do not interfere in your life if it is unpleasant for you. Perhaps, after this, you will be thought of as not the most polite person, but you will be calm.
