A person is very much influenced by people with whom he often communicates. Subconsciously, the individual absorbs both the bad and the good from the members of his social circle. Therefore, you need to pay attention to who is among your friends and good acquaintances.
Start with yourself
In order to form the right environment, you must first work on yourself. If you want to attract a certain type of people, you have to match them. For example, if you want to communicate with successful, intelligent and wise individuals, you first need to show such qualities as purposefulness, self-confidence, flexibility, and also develop your intellect.
Learn to win over those around you. Otherwise, despite all your virtues, people will not seek to communicate with you. Be kind, cheerful, open, smiling, then other individuals will be drawn to you. Think about how you might be of interest to your new acquaintances. Develop your talents and abilities. Become a good storyteller, be attentive to others, learn the basics of human psychology. This will make it easier for you to win the sympathy of the individuals you need.
To make a new friend, you need to find some common ground with him. It can be a common hobby, similar outlook on life, professional sphere, lifestyle, personality traits, and just a kindred spirit. The main thing is to discover what can bring you closer to the person you like and develop this topic. It is possible that with the help of one person you will find many new friends, a whole company. After all, a good friend of yours can lead you to his friends.
Act systematically
Sometimes a casual acquaintance develops into a true friendship. But if you are aimed at creating the right environment around you, consisting of people of a certain type, you need to work on this according to some kind of algorithm, not relying only on fate.
Think about where you can meet like-minded individuals that interest you. Visit various hobby clubs more often, go to personal growth training or professional courses. If you are a fan of a healthy lifestyle and want to have adherents of your views among your friends, go to a fitness club, pool, martial arts courses and group classes.
Take time to develop the relationship between you and your new friends. Don't be afraid to take the initiative and take the first step. Invite them to meet in an informal setting. Think of where it would be interesting for all of you to go together. Consider the habits and tastes of your new acquaintances, so as not to be mistaken when choosing a way to spend time together.
