Sometimes circumstances add up so that a woman or a young man one day realizes that he does not have strong feelings for the man or girl with whom he lives. It is not easy to come to terms with this situation. You need to understand yourself and understand where to go next.
Perhaps your feelings have not disappeared, but simply underwent some changes. This happens after several years of marriage or just living together. Strong passion gives way to a more restrained, but no less strong feeling. Maybe it scares you, and you think that you have stopped loving your man or your girlfriend. Find the strength to embrace a new stage in your relationship.
If you really stopped loving your partner or partner, think about what could be the reason for this. Perhaps in your couple there were some strong grievances, misunderstandings, scandals. The situation becomes more complicated when, along with cooled feelings, comes a reluctance to have sex with your boyfriend or girlfriend.
When you perceive the chosen one or the chosen one as a stranger, your feelings can change from complete indifference to hatred. It's not easy to live with such emotions. Think about whether you want to stay close to him or her. If you decide to try to save your union, learn to live with the person you don't love. Perhaps the situation will change soon.
Don't project your feelings onto your man or your girlfriend. If you're disappointed because you expected your relationship to be different, it's not just your partner's fault. Falling in love with an imaginary image is your problem. You should not throw out your negativity and resentment at a young man or woman who appreciates you and wants to be near you.
Try to change your attitude. You may be somewhat neglecting your partner or partner right now. Then imagine that he left you, or the girl left you, and your chosen one or chosen one has another loved one. Imagine that they found their ideals in each other, fell in love. Imagine how happy they are together. If something resembling jealousy has stirred in your soul, all is not lost. Fight for your happiness.
Of course, it's hard to live without true love. But on respect, understanding, great sympathy, you can also build a happy relationship. Pay more attention to the dignity of your chosen one or chosen one. Stop obsessing about not loving your boyfriend or girlfriend. Relax and have fun with your loved one.
If a woman holds nothing at all next to a man, except for material goods, it is better to part with him and look for your true love. When a guy and a girl do not have common interests, similar views on life, true feelings, and they are connected only by financial interest, such a union has little chance of a happy future.
