Teenagers spend a lot of time at school. Quite naturally, in addition to studying, personal relationships and sympathy arise on the agenda. How to learn to be interesting for everyone and to please your classmates?
Instructions
Step 1
Flawless appearance. The first impression is created in appearance and is an important indicator of personality perception. Always dress neatly and tastefully, choose accessories carefully. Make sure that the style of your clothes suits the situation.
Step 2
Learn the secrets of communication. A closed person, immersed in his own world, is unlikely to cause a desire to share his meditation. A consistently serious look is also not the best way to charm. Participate actively in extracurricular activities, show interest in the achievements of classmates. Don't get stuck with just a select group of friends. Periodically find opportunities to exchange a word or two with all the students in the class.
Step 3
Be nice and smile. Friendliness and a smile always attract interest. Each person subconsciously reaches out to the source of joy and happiness. If it is not difficult for you to make a sincere compliment, to say hello even to the quiet one from the class, then you are already able to win the attention of many.
Step 4
Self-confidence commands respect. Each person intuitively feels the self-esteem of the interlocutor. If you love yourself, know your strengths and calmly perceive the shortcomings, then the people around you will consider you a self-sufficient person.
Step 5
Don't be negative or humiliating. When someone begins to feel superior and offend the weak, it does not look very beautiful from the outside. The time will come, and there will be a more authoritative person for him, who will also publicly humiliate. Only those willing to intervene may not be. Do not discuss the flaws of classmates behind their backs. "Deaf phone" will convey your reviews, but in a more unsightly form, and you will make an enemy for yourself.
Step 6
Have your own opinion on everything. An integral part of a leader is his own point of view and the ability to lead others. Don't be influenced by others. Learn to express your position, argue and give arguments. A person who always agrees quickly loses interest in himself.
Step 7
Engage in self-development. You need to know a lot and be able to be an interesting person for everyone. If a person is unable to maintain a conversation, and he has no achievements, then you should not dream of popularity. To patronize the class with nose piercings or boorish behavior is the lot of the weak, who are trying to somehow prove themselves. A strong personality develops his skills and constantly strives to learn something new. Play sports and achieve high academic results. Tell interesting facts, joke more often, and learn to take trouble with humor.
