Often we are faced with the fact that we cannot find the right words to answer. And it doesn't matter what exactly - to insult, to maintain a dialogue, or just to comfort a person. And the problem is often not in vocabulary, but in ourselves. The secret lies in three essential skills - the ability to listen, the ability to think logically and the ability to speak, not think.
Necessary
an interlocutor for practice
Instructions
Step 1
Learn to listen properly and maintain dialogue.
In order to find an approach to the interlocutor, it is necessary to speak with him from his map of values and precisely in his words, and for this it is necessary to first let him speak. After that, ask a few leading questions in order to finally form his map and start talking to him using his speech patterns and sentence structure.
Step 2
Think logically.
The letter "A" is followed by the letter "B", but it also means that in the end everything will end with the letter "I." This is the simplest scheme for predicting the outcome of a conversation due to the utterance of certain words, and it should instantly be calculated in your head, and precisely in your head, and not in words.
Step 3
Turn off internal dialogue.
Logical thinking makes sense only when you have time to think or when a person answers you - in this case, you must simultaneously absorb information and analyze the right decisions. If you answer spontaneously, there is a greater chance that your words will hit the mark than if you ponder each word.
