Faced with adulthood, we notice a paradox: not all the knowledge that was given to us at school or institute turns out to be useful. Diligent students rarely get promoted; workaholics are often not famous for good work, and using other people's mistakes for learning is completely useless. On the other hand, success is achieved by people who deliberately break the rules.
Several principles for success:
1. Only 1/5 brings results. Think about it, 4/5 is an everyday hustle and bustle that you can simply refuse. It is understood by the example of the wardrobe. Out of 100% of the items in your wardrobe, what percentage is noteworthy? And wearing?
2. The futility of fears. Psychologists were shocked by the statistics: almost 90% of fears do not come true. The question arises: is it worth overloading your nervous system with empty worries, spending a lot of mental strength and emotions. And for the remaining 10% - well, it’s impossible to foresee everything.
3. Terms of work. When doing something, most people can barely squeeze in the allotted time. And it's absolutely not about the workload. How to be? Try to control the time allotted for the task, often look at the clock. Just do not overdo it - your life should not have the character of "timing".
4. Laziness. Psychologists say that laziness does not exist. If the task does not make you want to tackle it, then either there is no motivation - then why do you need it? Either your body is asking for a break - it means it's time for vacation or it's time to go to the doctor.
5. Failures and mistakes are the most valuable necessary experience. You will never know that you have gone the wrong way if you don’t go wrong. Thus, a mistake is a clarification of the path to a certain goal, and not at all a disaster.
6. Dreams. Don't forget your dreams. For example, a person received a long-awaited vacation and instead of rejoicing, the question arises before him: what about work without me? Stop and return to the starting point of your dreams, for example, about the sea, otherwise you might end up with a squirrel in a wheel.
7. Desires. Help your brain imagine desires. Make them more specific by writing in your diary, drawing a drawing, or composing a collage of selected images and photographs.
8. Communication. Try to meet new people more. You cannot know in advance which one will be useful to you. Place the interlocutor towards you by showing how pleasant it is to you to communicate with him. Be friendly and open.
The rules are absolutely simple, and those who set themselves the goal of achieving success must definitely take them into action. And the last - do not compare yourself with others. Compare yourself to yourself a few years ago. Draw conclusions about what you have achieved and how you did it. Believe me, this experience is the most valuable!
