How many times has it happened that you liked a girl, but did not dare to approach her? After all, who knows what is on her mind? Even if she likes you, she can still refuse to meet you. Although there is a way that will help you approach any girl, and reduce the likelihood that she will reject you.
It is necessary
- Confidence
- The girl you like
Instructions
Step 1
As soon as you spot the girl you are interested in, anywhere - in a bar, shop, coffee shop, etc. - the main thing that you need to approach her is confidence. But don't go overboard, confidence and cockiness are two different things. Even if you doubt your abilities, do not think about it for a few minutes.
Step 2
Smile when you approach the girl. This shows that you are in a good mood, that you are interested in the girl and, again, emphasizes your confidence. It also makes most people look more attractive. If she smiles back, that's a good sign.
Step 3
Make eye contact with the girl. If you look at the floor or to the side, the girl will feel uncomfortable.
Step 4
Be yourself, be honest and natural when approaching a beauty you like. Don't pretend to be someone you are not. And immediately ask her a few questions - she will be pleased to know that you are interested not only in her appearance, but also in her inner world.
Step 5
Don't forget your sense of humor. Usually this is one of the main advantages that girls value in unfamiliar men. If you have problems with a sense of humor, get ready to meet your dream in advance - memorize a couple of funny female jokes.
Step 6
Be friendly with the girl you just approached. Do not forget that in addition to speech, you give her signs with your body language, and she will understand that you are withdrawn if you have your arms crossed over your chest, even if you talk to her in the most affectionate voice.
Step 7
Watch her gestures too. This will help you figure out if you should have approached the girl. If she pulls away from you, stops smiling, or looks away, don't waste your time. Nothing will come of it. Try your hand next time!