The thirst for radical changes at times grips everyone. There is a feeling “that's it, I can't do this anymore” and an awareness of the need to change my reality. But how to understand what to undertake in the first place and what to rely on next? After all, desires do not always come to us "complete" with a plan for their implementation.
Instructions
Step 1
Accept the current state of affairs. Accept, yield, surrender - choose which version of the translation of the word surrender you like best. Because arguing with what is is a waste of energy and time.
Step 2
Make sure the timing is right to say goodbye to the old and introduce the new. Time is a key factor on the road to change.
It is better to leave it as it is than to act inappropriately. When is the time? When you are able to act not out of hatred and other negative feelings, but out of creative impulse and inspiration. This state is said to be "the wave has gone."
Step 3
Do not hurry. Act meaningfully and with ease. This attitude will help you look around and understand which area is more appropriate to start.
Step 4
Do not try to explain the changes you will make in terms of ordinary logic. Rely on your inner feelings and the demands of the present moment.
Step 5
Don't be afraid to follow your vision. Even if you are wrong, the benefits of such an experience will outweigh many times over.
Step 6
Start with what attracts you to the execution process.
Step 7
Use your discontent creatively. Convert the wording about the uncomfortable things into positive attitudes about what you want to contribute, and focus on them.
Step 8
Start changing your life where you can. To be successful, the process of change must be pleasant and joyful for you.
Step 9
Seek advice from a mentor. Find someone you respect and admire, and then follow their counsel to start your change.
Step 10
Give up the idea of changing something in your life. How does it feel? And so good, are you happy with everything? Then it is not worth starting, it is unlikely that something worthwhile will come out of such poorly motivated efforts.
The picture is different, and you can't wait to get started? Great, then go for it!
